December 15, 2009...3:22 pm

Books My Grandma Taught Me

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It was December, I was about eight and my good friend Charlotte and I were having a heated school bus discussion about what we Liked Best About Christmas (as if the answer weren’t obvious). “I like the presents!” She said candidly. I was about to concur giddily when I pictured my disapproving mother. Had she been listening, I knew the appropriate answer had to with the a special birth, not gifts. Unlike most of my friends, I went to church and knew better (I found out later in life many of my friends were Jewish) so I hedged. “That’s not the only good thing….the food’s good too.”

Yes, the food. And truth be told, Christmas Eve service was not half bad as far as church goes. But to my selfish, materialistic eight-year-old self, presents were the raison d’etre of solstice. And perhaps the best gift of all, the most highly-anticipated event of the season, was Grandma’s book box.

In my young eyes, my father’s mother was a woman of exceptional taste. She dressed immaculately, always smelled nice, loved horses, stocked her pantry with Apple Jacks and had the most beautiful snow-white updo I’d ever seen. She was spectacularly generous to her 21 grandchildren, shaping our minds not only with sophisticated conversation (grandma never talked down to us) but with her deep appreciation for children’s books. Not only did she have her very own floor-to-ceiling bookshelf stocked with musty treasures to peruse, she shared the wealth with an annual shipment of the latest and greatest in children’s literature.

I was grateful for the books at the time. I liked the stories, loved the pictures and most of all, adored their smell. But my appreciation for them now is tenfold. While I don’t own any of them anymore, there is nothing more comforting than re-discovering them in bookshops, flipping through the familiar images and finding that I still have many passages committed to memory. So while I’m not (yet) in a position to send a book box to a young family, I can still share a few favorites:

1. “Go Dog Go” by Philip D. Eastman

Admittedly, Grandma did not give this to me, nor am I sure she would approve (it’s no Dr. Seuss) but I’m including it here because it is the book that taught me to read. The book that I sat with one steamy summer day- the day I realized my parent’s time and attention was limited so if I wanted stories I better learn to read- sounding out words, red-faced and sweating. I can acutely remember the searing frustration every time I came to page 5 and the line “It is hot up here in the sun.” The word “here” bedeviled me, it made zero phonetic sense. But if you could get past “here” you’d move on to the reliably enthralling “Do You Like My Hat?” vignette featuring an amorous mutt trying to impress a snooty poodle by wearing outlandish hats. Priceless.

2. Good Dog Carl by Alexandra Day

Yes, another dog book. This one, about a hulking Rottweiler who tends to his mistress’s baby while she’s out shopping, is no narrative masterpiece. But the finely-wrought drawings- of Carl “serving” lunch on the floor, bathing baby Madeline- are lush and sweetly realistic. A gentle bear of a dog keeping watch over his cherubic charge fit my animal-loving ideal of how the world should be.

3. The Snowy Day by Ezra Jack Keats

The cover says it all. A little boy named Peter ventures around his neighborhood after the season’s first snowfall. No plot, really, but no matter. Every one of Peter’s observations- of snowbanks, footprints, the tragedy of melting- jibed with my own snowy explorations as a little kid.  Vivid, simple drawings made it a repeat favorite. And reassuring to know I wasn’t the only one who had to wear a stupid snowsuit.

4. Little Black Sambo by Helen Bannerman

Ok, I know what you’re thinking. Politically-incorrect at best, racist at worst, this tale of an Indian boy who outsmarts a mean pack of tigers was (is) nonetheless one of my favorites. It wasn’t until late into adulthood that its controversial overtones- use of the word “Sambo,” crude illustrations- dawned on me. And while it was a little shocking to know the book I loved so much growing up was considered racist, I think a better description might be “wildly outdated.” To most innocent young readers, Sambo was a hero who managed to turn talking tigers into butter. Even better, Sambo’s mom served up the tiger butter at dinner as an accompaniment to pancakes. Pancakes for dinner (with butter no less) was the only part of the book my 6-year-old self could see as being possibly controversial.

5. Tasha Tudor’s The Night Before Christmas

Far and away my favorite Christmas book, Tudor’s signature fairy-tale illustrations make the time-honored tale simply glow. Heaven for me will be straight out of a Tasha Tudor drawing, full of rosy-cheeked babies, cozy farm houses and chubby Corgis. Her potbellied Santa Claus was the  one I imagined stuffing stockings downstairs- the guy who had a party at every stop and treated his reindeer like family.

There are so many more- maybe another installment. Happy Christmas to all.

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  • Hi Devon, I loved your ‘book reviews’….I loved Little Black Sambo too….still use the metaphors…..T’was the Night Before XMAS is an all time favorite….The Little Prince made me cry so I took my 3 children to the library and checked it out for them too….then they each got their own copy as presents….the movie was wonderful and we all cried….I love my Kindle but there is nothing better than to sit in a room with shelves and shelves of books and just inhale the fragrant smells, turn the pages and enter another world…illustrations are always a bonus….We lived in La Jolla right below ‘Dr. Seuss’….my children would climb up the hill to his house and his wife, my now long-time friend of 33 years, would welcome them inside for a visit with Ted ‘ Dr. Seuss’…he would make a doodle for them and sign one of their books then they would scramble down the hill and into the house and tell us about their adventures….Dr. Seuss has passed away but Audrey still lives at ‘Seuss House’ and my children continue to visit……Merry Christmas to you and Ken….Diana

  • Grandma is very pleased right now, but how did the Happy Hockey Family miss the cut?

  • Hi Devon,

    My favorite Christmas gift was the box of books my grandmother gave to our family – she being the inspiration for your grandmother’s giving. Christmas night, when all the other gifts had been opened and some already forgotten, was the time I waited for all day. We jockeyed for position as the lucky sibling got to open the box and reveal it’s contents. This ritual was repeated in many families as Mildred was prodigious in her collecting throughout the year to provide similar boxes of wonder for her relatives and friends. As I grew older, it was a privilege to be asked to vet children’s books during the year to provide input as to which ones should make the cut.

    It is this tradition that inspired me to give your family the aforementioned Happy Hockey Family, knowing our shared warped sense of humor. What a wonderful way to connect with those you love!

    Thanks for the memories. Merry Christmas and may your stocking hold a book or two.

    • Thanks for sharing, Aunt Lynn! Books make such special gifts. I gave the Happy Hockey family to my fiance Ken’s two young sisters and they love it- I think it’s responsible for them “giving me a chance!”

  • Hey Devon, Thanks for the trip down memory lane. Grandma still sent books to even her great grandchildren so the tradition continued. My boys would wonder at the heavy parcel every Christmas and as a weary young mom at the holidays that book box felt like a wondrous emergency kit. It helped them connect with Grandma (G.G.) and her cool factor increased tremendously after she sent them a book called She’s Wearing a Dead Bird On Her Head! They thought that was very funny and quirky. My personal favorite: Ferdinand the Bull.

  • Devon!
    I remember that conversation, we were up front on the kindergarten bus… I think after that I tried not to say presents, but it was still always on the tip of my tongue. My new answer is family, but I still like the presents too :) Great book review, I remember reading Tasha Tudors book with you.

    Love the blog!

    -Charlotte

  • Each of those books is absolutely classic, but my favorite has to be Little Black Sambo. It is amazing to think that a story that I read countless times in my childhood had been largely forgotten before this moment! I have a vivid memory of the illustrations in that book, especially the yellow blur of the tigers as they run themselves into a pool of butter, and remember being innocently fascinated, yet skeptical of the physiology behind the whole mess…Great stuff!


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